Monday, August 24, 2009

First Day of Kindergarten

We got up early; I dressed, showered, and applied makeup while you ate cinnamon toast with your dad. We’d been sleeping late every day during the summer, so your dad was delighted to breakfast with you. He missed starting each day with your delightful sunny smile.


I drove you to school; we walked, holding hands, to the cafeteria. There were many kids and teachers who seemed to be moving in slow motion, and we did not know them. I was completely overwhelmed; you were not. Mrs. Kunkel, a friend of the family, suddenly appeared from the sea of nameless faces and swooped you up enfolding you under her arm taking you to the gym, and I followed three paces behind, happy to see a familiar face.


The new kindergartners were sitting in lines, backpacks on their backs with teddy bears in their arms and grouped in lines by the name of their teacher. I walked with you to Mrs. Cox’s line and sat with you.


All of the other moms were leaving, and a mom was sobbing in a dark corner of the gym. I was sweating, but I left too.


You were a little afraid at that moment, but so very brave. You let me go only clutching me slightly. You were fine until the line began to move toward your classroom. You began to cry, and I was not there to comfort you.


A little boy took you by the hand and asked, “what is wrong?” You said, “I want my Mommy.” He said, don’t cry, you will see your mommy soon. After school.”


He watched over you the whole day, and he watched over you most of the year.


So began the friendship between Stephanie Clement and Kaleb McCann.


By Darla Clement

Friday, July 24, 2009

These Little feet

These little feet I hold in my hand will one day belong to those of a man.

They yet cannot walk; nor can they stand and fit perfectly in my hand.

I will cherish now holding them closely this day.
For nearer yet is the time that he will use them to walk away.

July 5, 2005
For Rada from Yaya (Sharlena Matt)
my sister-in-law

Monday, June 8, 2009

A Poem called "House of Legacy"

What kind of a house am I building oh Lord?

What sort of a foundation is being poured?

Search my heart, as I cannot afford

To hoard my legacy or cause it to be abhorred


I want no favoritism outscored

No selfish behavior should be aboard

My words shouldn’t injure like a sword

I want relationships to be restored 

I do not want my family to experience discord


Things that are wrong cannot be ignored 

Give me strength for that to be explored

I want my legacy to be a reward

Your blessings I want to be poured

Over my household that I am the ward


Make my actions pure as gold

Give me a strong threshold for my foothold

As I build a legacy for my household

Make my actions right and controlled

Break any and all strongholds

Your blessings on me, do not withhold

I want more than reminiscing of days of old

A new tone that I can unfold


A life that I can voice with pride

Only you can make me dignified

And in you I can be glorified

It is up to me to decide

I can unite or I can divide

You will be my guide


Every day I plant a seed

My harvest is guaranteed

Neglect will give me a house of weed

Wisdom will provide me a house that’s freed

So, your word I will take head

Give me your mercy, I plead

Restore my home with great speed

A fresh legacy, help me to lead


I want to plant the seed of harmony

So I’ll change my testimony

Change a heart that is phony and stony 

To beat with warmth from your sanctimony


Kneed my heart oh Lord

Pierce it with your sword

So my legacy will be restored

By Darla Clement, April 2006

Monday

I'm just about to go visit GiGi, then I'm picking up my newly designed business cards that feature Ethan Hodde, a graduate of Pleasant Grove High School.  After that, I'm meeting with a potential client who's getting married soon.  We're meeting at the place of the wedding.